The Sex Tips

The sex tips.
Spring is the time when everything renews itself; it's a time of new beginnings, feeling fresh and alive and a great time to make a conscious effort to renew the passion in your relationship.

Relationships go through cycles just as nature does and levels of passion will vacillate. In the early stages of love passion is a blazing inferno that can't be put out and doesn't require any work, but as the relationship progresses, passion will not stay alive without effort. And just as your garden or flowerbed need nurtured with love ,water and sunshine, your relationship needs nurtured as well.

If you want to have an incredible relationship, then you have to make things interesting in the bedroom. The problem is this is hard to do after spending years with a woman.

Any activity that is soul-satisfying is something that nurtures our soul, makes us feel whole, complete, satisfied, euphoric, deeply connected with the universe, God, or whatever your spiritual connections. So, soul-satisfying sex is sex that provides us with these wonderful feelings. Soul-satisfying sex can only occur with people we are connected to emotionally, intellectually, physically and spiritually. This includes our connections to ourselves.

If you are connected to your lover on all these levels then the more satisfying the sex will be. Sure we can have good sex with someone we are only attracted to on a physical level, but that is not fulfilling for us spiritually. It will only satisfy us physically and leave us empty emotionally and spiritually. We usually feel like we are missing something in our life and unfulfilled. The thing we are missing is deep connections to another person and soul satisfaction.

The deeper our connections with the person we are having sex with, the more exciting, satisfying and ecstatic our sex will be. You will experience sex that takes you to a higher level of consciousness and cements you to your lover. Not only will you have a physical orgasm, but you will have a body, mind and spirit orgasm, which is an orgasm like no other. You will experience total euphoria, complete bliss and heights of passion like you never experienced before. Penetration becomes a union of the souls. The ultimate spiritual high is achieved when engaging in soul-satisfying sex.

So, if you choose to engage in sexually activity, it is always important to use some form of protection. The following will outline some of the options available.

1. Communicate Communication with your lover is the most important factor for not only a satisfying sexual relationship but for a relationship in general. If you do not communicate with your partner you can't be satisfied.. Be an Unselfish Lover Be a selfless lover (meaning your goal is your pure desire to give your partner the pleasure they desire.) Don't take each other for granted, which is easy to do if you have been together for a while and will kill your passion.

3. Seek Variety As the saying goes Variety is the spice of Life, and boredom is one of the main causes of unfaithfulness.

4. Be Spontaneous and Adventurous Surprise your lover with something unusual and kinky. Yes Kinky! Be outrageous and adventurous. Show up at their work for lunch naked under your coat and flash them. Send them an invitation to a hotel for a hot night of sex.

5. Be Present in the Here and Now. Fully experience each touch, sensation, smell, movement, sound and taste while you are making love. Don't allow your mind to slip into thoughts about work, children or fixing dinner etc. Stay completely focused on your partner and your experience. Allow yourself to become totally immersed in the pleasurable sensations you are giving and receiving.

6. Know Your Own Body and Desires

Explore your own body and discover what you like and don't like. Find out what arouses you and makes you roar. Make love with yourself. You can really drive your lover wild by allowing them to watch you pleasure yourself.
Written by Rayster
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How To Be Hot When Your Not!

So I am Single. I have been dating since high school and have had a few boyfriends but nothing healthy or long lasting. I have had my heartbroken and honestly, can't remember breaking any myself. I have met so many men from different backgrounds and different cultures.

I rarely have a boyfriend long enough for my friends and family to meet them. Every so often someone gets a glimpse of one of my dates, and this is the only proof that some of them actually exist.

So I have had my heart broken, been dumped, rejected, denied and fired....and I still feel on top of this beautiful, exciting and promising world. I feel this way because I know that the man of my dreams is out there. I just know it! I am thankful that these men have moved on briskly because if the losers stick around, I wont be available when Mr Right gets here. So I have changed what getting dumped means to me and crazily enough, after shedding a tear or two, especially for the ones I thought id marry, I get excited!

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaand just because we are ladies in waiting, it does not mean that we cant have a little fun now does it? Of course not! So let me give you a some tips on how to do that ;-)

Tip #1 Fake it till you make it!

People believe what they see. Men are attracted to modest confidence, womanliness and the biggest most important one of all....Mystery! They love it!! So if you are not already one of those girls....start there! The real lessons will come later!

Tip #2 Don't have to be rich to wear hot clothes?

If you haven't already noticed....the whole entire fashion world is based on peoples ideas on what is cool and wearable. The people that start these trends are people like you and me. So whats stopping us from using our creativity? Nothing! I like beautiful new season clothes from Portmans and Principles but the truth is...I cant afford it all the time! So I improvise. I find and outfit that suits my figure perfectly and duplicate it in heaps of different colors and accessories. Your sure to always look good. Don't forget to watch a little MTV or E Channel to get the latest scoop in fashion too!

Tip #3 Less Is More

Easy on the War Paint! I love make up...adore it! Would be lost without it. However, I have seen sooooooooooooo many girls out there who pile on the make up. There is a huge difference between day wear, evening wear and dress ups. Day wear you want to have something very natural. Foundation (maybe some powder or bronzer), a little eye brow pencil, mascara that lengthens and frames your eyes and your favorite gloss is all you need. Ensure you blend that foundation in.....theres nothing worse then a mask line between your face and neck.
Evening, the same but add shimmer on your check bones and maybe a little more mascara and a darker shade of gloss.
Dressups - (maybe out to night clubs) Go for it! Anything goes really.....depends on who you are wanting to impress. Check out whats the latest on E Channel, MTV and Mags for tips. Bonus Tip: Guys like a natural looking girl. When there is too much make up they cant help but wonder what is going on under it!!!

Tip #4 Attitude is everything...

If your having a rough time loving who you are then obviously you have had either a broken heart, someones hurt you, someones made you feel inadequate or you watch to much t.v. We may not all look like models but who freakin does? There are things about my body I hate....heaps of them....but guess what. Certain Bras make my boobs look great and Baby Doll dress and tops hide my tummy and dresses and skirts hide my pudgy legs. So when looking in the mirror after I have worked my magic....I think nothing but.... fabulous! Find what you love about you and accentuate it! You need to believe you are worth being loved and you need to believe you are super hot!! If you believe it, they will believe it!

Tip #5 Smile...

People are attracted to positivity. Don't believe me??? Try it. Not once and awhile. All the time.....see what starts to happen when you smile. The boys boys wonder what the mystery behind that cute smile is all about.

Tip #6 Smell Good...

Have a couple of delicious perfumes that people will remember you by. Day and Evening fragrances. Don't load it on, just enough so that when someone walks by they catch a hint of your mesmerising scent.

Tip #7 Don't be too eager...

When you are approached by a man and he does ask you out, which he will. Whether it be randomly, over the net or set up by a friend (I meet most of my men over the net). Don't put everything off for him immediately and say YES YES YES! Be calm, think about the date and say "that sounds really nice, can I just check on a few things and get back to you"? Then grab his no. and the next day call him and politely make a time that suits you both. Your a lady after all.

Tip #8 Finally...

Be yourself....how is someone supposed to like you if your not even being you. Be calm, cool and collected. It is normal for us women to have a man half way down the isle on the first date.....but don't bloody tell him that! LOL Joke a bit, smile, be polite and don't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. Just because he finds you hot doesn't mean you have to feel the same....and never ever sleep with a man on the first date.....ever!
Have fun :-)

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Easy Penis Enlargement Methods (Sexuality)

Men have become highly open in their outlook towards male penis enhancement and want to find out ways to enlarge their small penises. There are certain methods that can provide easy penis enlargement.

Not only men seeking penis enlargement but also doctors have highly acclaimed penis exercises and penis extenders to be a safe and effective method of real penis enlargement.Furthermore, it is common to use pills and tablets to speed up the process of natural penis enhancement. These exercises for male enhancement are referred to as Jelqs and work on the principle of tissue expansion.Penis exercises and a traction device are similar in the sense they work on the phenomenon of tissue expansion. Instead of performing maunal exercises you can use a traction device which performs power jelqs once you wear it on your penis by exerting pressure through traction for easy penis enlargement Though there are certain things you need to be wary of while performing penis exercises.

Most importantly, you need to be patient since tissue expansion takes time. You need to stay motivated to go through the routine of performing these exercises week after week. In the beginning some men get over zealous and start performing these manual exercises more than once a day. Overdoing exercises is not going to help you since tissue growth takes time. What it does is just exhaust the tissue and nothing more than that.

Pubic hair is another obstacle that comes in your way while doing either exercises or using a penis traction device. You might pull hair leading to acute and unwanted pain. Secondly, some men experience difficulty in getting a good grip at the base of the shaft due to hair. Thus, it is better to have these hair shaved off altogether.
More importantly, these exercises require partial erection to be performed properly and no man has perfect control over his erections.

Quite often, men find themselves completely erect and unable to perform these exercises. In order to avoid this all you can do is divert your mind to something else so that the erection can subside a little. Lastly, do not measure your penis too often. This can have a demotivating effect on you since frequent measurements do not show big results. The most successful method of achieving faster gains is by combining 2 or more penis enlargement resources. For instance, you can use natural pills with exercises.

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How To Give A Good Blow Job To Your Man - You Can't Afford To Miss This (Sexuality)

Almost all men think that fellatio or blow job is the cornerstone of a healthy sexual relationship. Fellatio is such a blissful and fantastic experience for a man that if you really want to please your guy, you need to know how to do it right. Let us explore just why men love fellatio so much.

During fellatio, a warm wet mouth is wrapped completely around his penis which has a lot of very sensitive nerve endings. Your man’s penis is now surrounded by tight, warm wetness, that when coupled with movements, it can produce unbearable orgasmic experience for him.

However, when you are giving blow job to your man, there are certain things that you need to take note of in order to let him enjoy the experience:
1. Create more visual pleasure for him. Before you go down on him, give him a striptease to spice him up. Men are visual creatures and they can easily get turned on by visual excitement. While you are performing fellatio for him, look him into his eyes to turn him on even further!

2. Do it with enthusiasm. One of the biggest turn-offs for a man during fellatio is to see his lady doing it half-heartedly. Therefore, if you really want to please him, just act as if you like it so much that you are enjoying it. You do not need to be an Oscar winner to do this.

3. Vary the positions in which you perform fellatio. Different positions provide different visual stimulations for him. Therefore, it is good to try out various positions so that he will enjoy different views every time you go down on him.
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How To Make Oral Sex More Enjoyable For Women

Being able to give a woman an orgasm using cunnilingus is something that all men should strive to achieve if they want to become better lovers. Oral sex can be used to not only give women more sexual satisfaction but also some of the most explosive and powerful clitoral orgasms.

Before you head south and take the plunge, its important to first get your partner fully aroused and stimulated so that she is ready for her clitoris to be touched. This can be done by teasing her and working your way around her whole body carefully stimulating her erogenous zones and sensitive areas.

Gently caress her inner thighs with your hands and tongue but avoid touching any part of her vagina for as long as possible as this will drive her wild. By teasing her in this way you will build up the anticipation and increase her arousal until she can't wait any longer for you to finally touch her vagina.

Once she is fully aroused you can use the tip of your tongue to gently part her outer lips and slowly work your way up to the clitoris where the folds of skin come together at the top. But before you concentrate on the clitoris, make sure that you explore the whole vagina with your tongue as this will get her more excited.

As the excitement builds and she becomes more and more aroused her vagina will become moist and her vulva will start to swell. If she raises her hips to meet your lips and starts moaning and trembling, just continue what you are doing. If she starts rapidly breathing and grabs your head to push you in for more, you know you are doing a good job.

When she is ready, slowly work your way up to her clitoris with your tongue. The persistent rhythmic licking and flicking of the tip of your tongue on her clitoris is what will eventually bring her to orgasm. To send her over the edge and give her even more pleasure, you can also take her clitoris in your mouth and gently suck and release.

Its important to remember that not all women are the same and what works for one woman may not work for another so you need to experiment and find out exactly what she likes. Some like to have their clits stroked, while others are too sensitive to be touched. Some like to have fingers inserted in the vagina, while others don't.

This is why communication is so important if you want to improve your sex life because if you know exactly what she likes you can satisfy her fully. As you discuss what worked and what you could have done differently, you will start to perfect your technique and this will lead to a more fulfilling sex life.

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Learn the Top Sexual Positions - You Can Make Her Scream With Delight and Pleasure

The best way to spice up lovemaking is to try new Sexual Positions. To make your partner climax and scream with delight you must have some great tips for the top sexual positions.

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Missionary Position (Updated) - Yes this is the position that you know so well but this time we are adding a twist that will make her go wild. You want to get into the standard position man on top of woman. Now for the exciting part you want to bring both of her legs up is a crouching position because this will allow for a deep penetration and extra sensation.

Learn How To Have a : Mind Blowing Orgasm

Doggy Position (Updated) - We all know the standard position with the woman on all fours and the man entering her from behind but if you really want her to get excited add this to the mix. You want to rock forward some and instead of the man being on his knees or standing, crouch using your feet. Then you want to penetrate deep and this will make her go wild because it will rub her G Spot area.

Sideways (Updated) - This is one of the hottest positions you can try. What you do is lye side by side then pull her close to you then kiss on her neck and message her thigh. When you penetrate her then use your finger to play with her clitoris and stimulate her G Spot area. You will enjoy this position and it will keep her coming back for more.

Remember that you need to be informed when trying new sexual positions.

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5. Last Longer in Bed - Herbal Sex Pills For Harder and Longer Erections and Better Sex Quickly!

If you want to last longer in bed and get your sex drive and libido up then remember - you are what you eat! If you feed your body the right foods before sex then you can give your sex drive a lift and enjoy greater sexual satisfaction...

The keys to a strong hard erection are:

High levels of nitric oxide, testosterone, good strong blood circulation and the right state of mind i.e. you are relaxed and full of energy and this can all be achieved quickly with some powerful herbs to help you last longer in bed and enjoy better sex.

There are many herbal sex pill manufacturers, who are blending pills with these herbs in strong qualities to increase your performance and they will get you a better erection and increase desire and satisfaction, by lifting all the areas we not above.

Nitric oxide is not only the key to a strong erection; it's the key to getting an erection in the first place! Not enough of this chemical will mean you wont even get one. It helps the blood vessels of the penis relax and blood to enter in sufficient quality to create a strong firm erection.

Herbs to Increase Your Performance FAST!

You can get it from the well known Chinese herb Horny Goat Weed and the lesser know but equally powerful Cnidium. Horny Goat Weed will help lift your testosterone levels and Cnidium is an excellent blood tonic helping pump blood around the body and to the extremities, like the genitals.

Yohimbe the well known West African libido enhancer is an alkaloid taken from the bark of the yohimbe tree and the hydrochloride contained enhances libido like Cnidium by increasing blood flow to the sex organs helping to promote strong erections.

So the above will ensure your nitric oxide levels and testosterone levels are high and will ensure good blood flow to the penis.
Another critical aspect of last longer in bed is to have the right state of mind and this means being un-stressed, relaxed and with plenty of energy. You simply need to be in the right state of mind to feel in the mood for sex.

Again Horny Goat Weed is an excellent energy booster and helps you de-stress. The other well known Chinese herb of Ginseng also promotes energy within the body and enhances mood. It is also an excellent circulatory herb as well and acts to heal the sex organs.

The above are a powerful combination of herbs which can increase sex drive and ensure better and stronger erections there not the only herbs but they will provide a base for more sexual stamina quickly. Let's mention another couple of herbs which you can add to the above - not so well known but very powerful
Schizandra berries, increase sexual stamina, desire and strengthen the sex organs generally, they also help fight fatigue and stress and lift energy. Bombyx Mori has been used for centuries in China as an aphrodisiac and is a rare but powerful Libido booster.and stimulates the circulatory system and helps healthy blood flow.

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Remember - your performance is a reflection of the fuel you feed it and the above is an excellent natural combination for better sex.

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3. Is My Man On The Down-Low?: What Are The Warning Signs?

"What are the signs?" That's what every woman wants to know. Are there warning signs that would expose the secret life of a down-low man? The "down-low" or "DL" is a term which refers to men who secretly have sex with other men while in a sexual relationship with women. She may be his wife, girlfriend or just a friend with benefits, but the down-low specifies she is not "in the know" about his homosexual activities. Down-Low men purposely avoid looking or acting feminine.

They try to portray themselves as strong and masculine in a deliberate effort to exterminate any doubt of their heterosexuality. A woman cannot determine a man's sexuality by his mannerisms or style of dress alone, however there are many warning signs ranging from the most obvious to the very subtle.

The number one sign of detecting a down-low man is a woman's intuition. Our intuition speaks to us through fleeting thoughts and physical sensations, such as tingling of the skin, hair standing up on the back of the neck, and a bad feeling in the stomach. Others have described their intuition as a spoken whisper or an instant aversion to someone. It could be an uncomfortable feeling that something is weird, off, or wrong. If a woman feels that something is wrong in her relationship, she's probably right and further investigation is needed.

A woman's intuition will reveal the truth about a person or situation without reason or logic, but she has to be willing to trust it. Other down-low warning signs include:
1) Lack of sexual desire
2) Gay porn/Internet activities
3) Shaving body hair
4) Display of excessive hatred towards gays
5) Very secretive
6) Frequently hangs out at the gym
7) Emotional detachment

These are just a few of the signs displayed by DL/closeted gay men. The signs above may not be portrayed by every man on the down-low and some DL men will even portray signs not discussed here. Please keep in mind some straight men could also display one or two of the above signs. These signs can be used as guidelines to help women find answers to questions already brought to their attention by their intuition.

The Straight-Up Truth About The Down-Low is a must read for all women. It was written by two women who have experienced the anguish and misery of being married to men on the down-low. They share from their hearts their stories and the stories of other women who have lived through this experience. For more information, please visit www.straightuptruth.com.

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Becoming a Sex Master Is Easy

You can add quality to your life by improving your sexual skills. A lot of improvement is observed as you gain both emotional and social stability. It is sad that men invest plenty of time, money and energy in a mission to improve areas in their life that has little or no impact on their general value in life. Becoming a sex master can have dramatic impact off adding value to our lives.

This is done by researching and practicing in order to horn the sex skills. Many men have the misconception that the sexual abilities are things that are inborn like the color of their eyes. They are therefore living with their current level of performance and skills without doing anything to change the situation.

Men should learn that just like there was no man who was born a golf master, nobody was born a sex master either. Sexual performance and prowess is something which can be easily improved. It does not involve a mystical process to become sexually proficient. Do you agree with me that it is easier to attain sexual proficiency than to become an above average golfer? Yes it is true. Not many men who can be classified as excellent lovers but they are good sex masters.

To join the popular group with women you will only do about three things. The first important thing is to get thorough understanding of basic skills, techniques and related exercises. The second thing should be proper motivation. Get a book or a sex therapist who will guide you through the sessions.

Every good result is first appreciated by the human mind. You should work towards having the right attitude. The full sexual mastery system used to seduce women and satisfy them sexually might involve dedication of much time and energy. You should be aware that to become a sex master by enhancing sexual competence and enjoyment is might involve a seemingly negative thing. In fact, throughout the centuries, many beliefs and cultures indicate that a man is essentially a sexual creature. I know you are saying that there is more to life than sex but if you are keen you will realize that human beings are manifestations of sexual energy. All aspects of life seem to lead us to sex in one way or another.

I have given you all the reasons you should become an incredible sex master. You should not go through life being horrible at a game that gives you ultimate pleasure, satisfaction and happiness. Be the best at it and be able to draw energy, confidence, power from your the successful expression of your own sexuality. Sex is not a sport but a game. You should enjoy it and if you do not, you probably have one of the greatest problems. Some men engage in sex because they feel it is an obligation. If this is your attitude, you should stop it before it becomes worse. Sexual mastery is possible if you believe in your ability to take control of your performance. Get few tricks and techniques but do not struggle when you have little or no knowledge about sexual mystery.

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1. How to Give a Female Gushing Orgasm

It is sad that sex surveys show that only about 10 % of women have ejaculation orgasms. These types of female orgasms are intense and profound. Unfortunately, most men have little knowledge about how to give their lovers these types of amazing orgasms.
The G-spot is a spongy area along the upper wall of a womans vagina. Generally, you find it by sliding your finger on the upper wall of the vulva, about 1 inch in. Make sure your lover is turned on and wet before finding the g spot. The distance inside the vulva can vary with different women.
Generally, the texture of this spot is different to the other areas of the vulva. It usually has a texture like a walnut. However, just to confuse men, some women have a smooth texture.
A few weeks ago I was talking to a male friend about G Spot massage. In our discussion he told me that the G spot does not exist. This made me sad as it is my experience that when a womans G spot is stimulated, she can have orgasms after orgasms leading to gushing orgasms.
Many women get an urge to urinate when they are very aroused by G spot stimulation . They resist this urge and block the ejaculation response. Sometimes they can get ejaculation responses going down their legs.
Men can also give negative feedback about their womans body fluids too. The ejaculation fluid can be cups for some females and has been tested in laboratories and the composition is not urine.
However, many women have stored fear and deep negative emotions in the G spot area. When this area is touched or massaged they feel nothing or it can be painful etc The man has to be very sensitive in this case.
The best way to achieve gushing orgasms is by combining oral sex and g spot massage. I have put together a simple guide to help men become skilled at giving gushing orgasms.

Maurice Tate (author) is a qualified sexologist trained at the Advanced Institute of Sexology. Learn secrets that most men will never know about Sex and the female G-Spot and how a few techniques will allow you to give her mega orgasms...Sexual Ecstasy in 14 Days and Oral Sex for G Spot Orgasms

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